DORATHY ATAGHER'S THOUGHT

WHEN THERE IS VISION, THERE IS PROVISION

Many people, especially girls, in terms of dating look at the physical appearance more than what is in the inside. Now don’t get me wrong, everybody must look at the outer features, even the Bible says, “man (humanity) always looks out for the outer feature”. But ladies, don’t make it your base, same goes to men. Rather than running after a man that has a lot of money and cars, what you should look out for is a man with vision because when there is vision, there is provision. When a man has a vision or lots of visions, you see potentials in him.

In fact as a lady, God has given you the spirit of prediction. When a man is dating a lady, the lady can foresee what will become of the man tomorrow. As a matter of fact, if you sit with a man, five minutes is enough for you to know if he will marry you or not. Your conversation with a man on your first date will make you to know if truly he is a man that is ready to settle or if he is just one of “those boys” out of the blues.

Look at the vision always and the hardworking aspect, a man that has wisdom and fears God, for the Bible in proverbs 1:7 says, “The fear of the lord is the beginning of wisdom”. Go for a man that appreciates you, respects you, has a vision in mind and above all prays for you. Run to the safe side, away from wrong choices.  

KEEP YOUR VOICE DOWN

Whenever you want to talk to someone, shouting is not a criterion that the person you are talking to is listening to what you are saying. When you shout, you end up making a hell of noise and the message you are trying to pass across to the other person is not really understood. No matter how upset you are, you have to calm down before you talk. During the process or period of shouting, it is obvious that you are angry, but you also say things you are not meant to say. Do not make a costly mistake because you are angry always take caution when it comes to talking, watch what you say and also watch your tone because as far as I have seen, nobody likes to be shouted at.

When you shout at someone, there is a possibility that what you said was not taken by the person you shouted to? In other words, whatever you tell them goes into one ear and comes out from the other. Watch the tone in which you use to talk to people so that whatever you want to say comes out plain and comes with meaning, take a chill pill.